You’ve seen the movie Monster-in-law, right?
You know the one with Jennifer Lopez, Michael Vartan, and Jane Fonda? Well if you haven’t, you definitely need to.
It sums up exactly what your brides (and you) might face when planning a wedding.
But in all seriousness, dealing with controlling moms and future mothers-in-law can be a nightmare for any bride.
So as a wedding planner, it’s your job to stick up for your client, and put mom in the corner.
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. We’ve got some tips to help you out!
Understand Why Momzillas Exist
To handle a momzilla, you first need to understand what causes a momzilla. And it all comes down to emotions.
Moms’ lives are changing. Their babies aren’t babies anymore, and their family dynamic is shifting.
And when it comes to your client’s wedding and happiness, moms want to make sure it’s the best for you.
So when the mom of the bride texts you or her daughter all the time, know that it’s coming from a good place.
These moms just want the best for their children, and them reaching out to you helps fight their anxiety a little bit.
How to Handle the Craze Momzilla
Yes, momzillas can be crazy!
One moment they’re perfectly fine with how you’re handling everything, the next they’re crying because it’s not right.
How do you handle it?
One of the biggest things a momzilla needs is to feel included, to feel like you want them as a contributor in the wedding.
No one likes sitting out or feeling excluded, especially mom!
It’s alright to ask mom for her opinion, get her insight on what the bride might like, as well as explore any hidden talents she might have in design.
And it might help calm the beast.
Don’t Bend too Much
Now of course, the best way to handle momzilla is to make her feel included.
But, and this is a big but, always make sure you’re still the voice for your client.
Don’t let mom overstep her bounds and start taking control of everything. It’s your client’s day and she hired you to be her champion, even when it’s against mom.
The best way to handle situations like that if they do arise is to sit down with the mom and explain to her that while you are both thankful for her input and all that she has done, her actions are causing problems.
Sure it’s a little frank and abrupt, but no need to be ambiguous and beat around the bush with a serious issue like this.
Be firm when it comes to fighting a momzilla!
Ready to battle your first momzilla, event planners? We believe in you! Just remember, you’re there to help your client plan their dream day.
And to those event planners who’ve dealt with a momzilla, tell us your experience in the comment section below, or share it with us on our Facebook page.
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